12.31.2019

One Decade

2010 1st Part timer + EU trip + MSc + Karin

2011 Joined 1st company

2012 3rd rank BATK program + engaged

2013 Get married + PhD awardee of LPDP

2014 1st son + ISIC oxford

2015 The Crescent 30 + Wales trip

2016 1st conference + Euro trip

2017 Kidee + First Car + PhD obtained

2018 Joined 2nd company + 1st visit to KL

2019 2nd son was born + Moved to KL

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2019-2020

2019 has been a roller coaster for me

I had a lot of things that I may proud of and also if I could see for improvement, there is a lot of improvement that I may sort out for the future. Alhamdulillah, 2019 gave me a lot of things to enjoy and to grow.

I had such a wonderful thing in my career, being someone willing to learn, but have not got adequate experience had led me to a different path. Let's just say that I did not belong there. I have a mindset which is I realized that it is a totally different world with different cultures out there. Alhamdulillah, I found a better place for me. Thank you, Allah, for letting me met great persons and leaders. I would not be here without them.

The second thing is that we have a bundle of joy arrived in the middle of the year. We were very ecstatic to welcome him to the world. And, Allah's bless continues as I have been on-boarded in the headquarter in KL, Malaysia, 4 days after he was born. Alhamdulillah!

Then, finding a new home was a challenge. However, it seems that is was very easy for me. All the things have been sorted out once in October. I relocated to my new house in November, alhamdulillah, the landlord is fabulously nice, the house is beyond our expectation, it has a very nice layout with affordable prices for us. Alhamdulillah. is very near to the center, the wife loves it as it near to a cheap sushi bar, LRT, subway, and even they have good nasi Kandar around. :)

So, in sha Allah we are ready for 2020. Ya Allah, please give us the strength to do the best and be the best. Amin!


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10.16.2019

New Challenge, New Hope


Hereby, Having many things happened recently. We do have our second bundle of joy last June, not long after that, I have been relocated to Headquarter in Malaysia. Alhamdulillah.
Of course, there are many pros and cons for every changes that happen in life. It is either because your own choice or to the situation that beyond your control. Starting a new life in different country, with different culture, also a new specific area which beyond my capacity for now it has being a challenge.
This part is will be my capacity building for myself. I will try my best, do my best and become the best. May Allah The Almighty will grant me with strength to do my best and become the best :)
In sha Allah amin.
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6.19.2019

Control


I saw Garry Vee's video yesterday. What did he say it really awakes me. There are many things that is beyond our control. People, environment, culture, decision, etc. So, based on that, we could see that we need to control the 'beyond control' things.
This situation has led Garry could naturally control the things as he is aware that many things are beyond his power and control. This led me to realise that a lot of things could not be controlled easily. Therefore, we do need to prepare everything. Mistakes are unavoidable (Wisnhutama, CEO NET), but we have to prepare and done everything without mistakes. Thinks all the details and prepare for the worst.
Now, time to move on. Time to control the 'beyond control' with what we can control :)

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6.18.2019

Opportunity


There are many opportunities out there, however, each opportunity has its own characteristic. I do a lot of opportunities. If we represent opportunities as a job or work, we could say that there will be a lot of branches. These branches represent on how we could embrace all opportunities to approach our objective.
There are many ends, which do you want? money? career? work environment? location? growth?
In the end, we do need to adjust or align these ends with the current needs. I do learn a lot about this thing, for now maybe, A is the most important ends for me. Then, it could be adjusted to B for the next end.
It will be depend on your own. You will have your own path. What I do remember is on how to embrace the moment. Enjoy the moment. Bringing confidence to myself and keep the confidence and throw away all excuses. I do have excuses, but it could be all away once I do have the confidence.
So, please do not be afraid. A lot of opportunities are there. The most important thing is yourself. Keep praise yourself. You are unique, and you could not be compared with others.
Thank you Allah Ar Rahmaan Ar Raahiim for your Rahmat

-AW-
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6.12.2019

Feedback


I do sometimes welcome any feedback. 

I could assume that all the feedback are positive. It mend to encourage ourselves to become a better person, better employee, and also better hope in the future. Mostly feedback does not concern about when and where. It could come anytime and anywhere.

Related to what I wrote in the previous blog. It also depends on how we look the feedback. Timing and Place would not become a matter if we could see it positively. Feedback giver mend that people do really care for us and would like us to grow.

This situation has also need to become a good chance for me to embrace my weaknesses. Identify my strength and how to cope the opportunity to reduce my weaknesses' level. 

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6.11.2019

Different Perspective

Perspective (source: Pexels.com)
There are a keyword that popular in Linkedin these days. It is 'toxic'

You name it:
- Toxic people
- Toxic environment
- Toxic culture
- Toxic (you name it)

Initially, I did notice that it is not toxic which caused the problem. But it is more to the perspective on how we look the perspective of a problem. If we said that it is toxic, etc. Basically we are being toxic to ourselves. That is my opinion. Once we mentioned that is it a toxic, mostly we will not see the other perspective. We will look the negative or toxic side. Nevertheless, there is a lot of things that we could take to enrich our development, experience for example.

In the end of the story, there will be always a happy ending. So, it is not toxic or not toxic. It is more to see the others perspective as your perspective. Maybe people could see us a toxic people as well, as we see another people as toxic. This is normal and we will not be able to make everyone happy, as we are not an ice cream :)

That was my thought.

Wallahualam...


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6.10.2019

Renew

Hi Blog!

As I promised to you earlier.

I would like to renew my vision, my reasons and my vision towards this blog.

I started this blog when I was doing my master in Newcastle UK. I realised that this blog could be like a messenger for me. This blog could deliver my message to my family and all who would like to know. At least they would know what did i do or what was my thoughts were. This blog could also tell them that I was all right or I was not so good, and so on.

While in the meantime, this new blog has evolved my vision. I am sure that someday my son or my inheritance could learn from this blog. I would like to share. What did I do, what was wrong And what was right. This blog could forward ny ecperience to them. And i hope they could learn from what I have done.

As simple as that I supposed. So, this renew will also return my other parts of life. This renewed blog will also symbolise the renewing me.

Bismillah

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New Life = New Start

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Alhamdulillah,

It has been almost a week from the Eid Al Fitr. When we return our soul to the purest after fast.

I have changed the domain name, as simple because I was too lazy to renew the domain. Many things that I have to do at that time, so dailyarie.com has been acquired by a chinese company which I do not know who. I could not read chinese, I do apologise.

I have returned a lot of things to sort. My career, my family, my plan and my house of course. This moment is the best time to return myself to reconfigure and also to return the thing that I want the most of. Many things have been passed, many challenges, many up-downs, and also many things which have made me as myself today. I am very grateful for those things.

So, please wish me luck please. My new life, my new me, my new theme, my new domain.


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